Stuff We Like :: 10.19.18
I’ve always been a little bit of an overachiever. And while I complain about it sometimes, I’ve always been secretly glad that I’m good at balancing a lot of things at once. (I have posted about some of the ways I make my full-time job and full-time homeschooling balance in the past.) This year, though, I have reached my limits, and I have no balance at all. I’ve never been behind for long, and now I can’t seem to catch up. It’s pretty humbling, and it’s a good exercise in saying no and letting go of things that aren’t important, two things I am definitely not very good at. I’m embarrassed and frustrated — but I’m trying to model what I’d want my kids to do in the same situation. It’s not easy.
What’s happening at home/school/life
Sometimes, a new homeschooler sends me an email, and I email back, and our email turns into something like a friendship. It’s always lovely when this happens because one of the things that can happen in that first year of homeschooling, after the initial what-am-I-doing? wears off but before you’ve found your places and your people, homeschooling can be surprisingly lonely. I remember the people who reached out to me in those early, lonely days of my own homeschool life and how they felt like a lifeline. I love that I get to pay it forward a little bit with other people. (And I promise that it really does get better.)
This week: Amy’s Library Chicken game is more like Library Turtle, but it’s chugging along. (And hey, this week I got to early-vote while I was there!)
Last week: Maybe you need some ideas for your Halloween reading list
Last year: How to catch up when you’re academically behind
Two years ago: Tips for homeschooling through a move
Three years ago: When people say “homeschooling must be really hard”
Four years ago: Lisa’s salon school
Links I Liked
Nic Stone’s letter to her younger self made me weepy in all the best ways.
I get a lot of good stuff from social media, but I also lose a lot — the comparison here between social media and the witch’s candy house feels spot-on to me. I’m not sure I’m ready to pull the plug on Facebook, but I have been plugging in a lot less frequently, and I find that I’m a lot happier and more present in my everyday life.
These voter purges are terrifying. What is even happening?
Relevant to my interests: 10 little-known children’s books by famous authors
Now I want to go read everything by Margaret Cavendish.
Things I Didn’t Know But Now I Do
Dante Gabriel Rossetti had two pet wombats. He was so sad when one of them died that he wrote a poem (a nod to Thomas Moore):
I have never reared a young Wombat
To glad me with his pin-hole eye
But when he was most sweet and fat
And Tail-less; he was sure to die!The grassroots activism happening in the United States in 1868 was amazing. Why don’t we talk about that when we talk about Reconstruction?
In 1900, the Brooklyn Public Library Association proposed “to build a seaside rest home for those [female librarians] who had broken down in library service.”
Archaeologists have found a medieval board game that dates back to the 7th or 8th century C.E. (And you can still play it today.)
There is a female, Japanese Sherlock Holmes adaptation, and I AM SO IN.
What’s making me happy
An 18th century kid’s doodle of a chicken in pants from the margins of his math practice
The Figa: fig vodka, Earl Grey, and tangerine juice
These super-cute tumblers
Betrayal at the House on the Hill
Castle Hangnail — our new favorite Halloween readaloud
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Don’t dread higher math! Get inspired with these resources that will give you confidence and ideas for middle and high school math in your secular homeschool.
Looking for a middle grades fantasy for your next homeschool readaloud? We review three of our newer faves: The Time of Green Magic, Amari and the Night Brothers, and The Language of Ghosts.
Three action-packed YA novels that might just scratch your homeschool reading sweet spot.
Celebrate the birthday of the renowned physicist, mathematician, astronomer, natural philosopher, alchemist, and theologian on January 4 with an Isaac Newton homeschool unit study.
Need a new series for winter readaloud season? We have a few ideas.
In this funny, old-fashioned story, two Dalmatian parents set off to rescue their kidnapped puppies. It's so much more fun than the movie!
A wintry middle grades mystery that may remind you a little of The Westing Game.
Rebecca loves the nerdy grammar fun of Michael Clay Thompson’s Language Arts. It may not be for everyone, but it’s definitely for word lovers.
Celebrate the shortest day of the year by exploring the science of the seasons.
If you’ve got a reader who’s always ready for an excuse to hang with the gang from River Heights, one of these gifts might be a fun addition to your holiday wish list.
In this sweet winter story, a friendly troll reminds a farm full of creatures that spring is coming.
Our homeschool gift guide for A Wrinkle in Time readers features gifts inspired by classic literature, from t-shirts to kitchen tools and everything in-between.
Homemade gifts you can actually make with your kids that your friends will actually be happy to get.
What makes a great gift for your favorite Mysterious Benedict Society fan? Puzzling puzzles, in-case-of-emergency-supplies, and — of course — books.
Our favorite homeschool books from this year’s reading lists.
Here’s our annual roundup of all the books we want to give and get this holiday season.
Thanksgiving gets weird when a butcher mishap leads a kid to a 266-pound chicken.
Be a magical librarian, choose your own adventure, get your Shakespeare on, and more games we want to give and get and (mostly) play this holiday season. These are our favorite homeschool board games.
If you’ve got a kid who finds the humor in this hilarious apocalyptic tale, these gifts may be just the ticket.
Why is it so easy to hate England's notorious King John? Oh, let us count the ways in this trash-talking unit study.
“A Community Conversation to Understand the U.S. Constitution” was a profound and powerful experience for Carrie’s homeschool.
Book or movie? With so many Christie adaptations and books to choose from, we’ve rounded up the cinematic cream of the crop and the stories that give the most mystery mileage.
It’s the end of the world as we know it — and sometimes that’s not as bad as it seems. These 10 books about the end of the world are great for starting big conversations with your high school homeschooler.
If you’re looking for a twisty turner teen thriller, these recent YA books about teens in dangerous situations may be just what you’re looking for.
It's that time again! We've rounded up some great ways to celebrate your first day of the new homeschool year, whether you want to keep it simple at home or take a big adventure together.
Modern Gothic, hopeful speculative YA, classic kids lit mash-up, and one of my favorite new book discoveries made May an awesome reading month.
Nature time is one of the best parts of homeschooling — and a weekend camping trip is the ultimate homeschool nature adventure. Here’s how to make your homeschool camping trip a fun experience for the whole family.
A book with a homeschooling scientist as the main character and lots of cool geology facts? We love to see it.
If you have a kid who dreams of starting a business, these readalouds will help inspire them.
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Covid cases are spiking, and lots of secular homeschool families are still navigating social activities with extra caution. Having clear policies for homeschool co-ops and get-togethers can help all the folks in your community make the best choices for their families.