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Readaloud of the Week: The Lions of Little Rock

This thoughtful middle grades historical fiction tackles Little Rock's turbulent integration era through the story of two girls' friendship.

THE LIONS OF LITTLE ROCK by Kristin Levine

One question that comes up a lot in our homeschool these days is “How do you do the right thing when everyone around you seems to be doing the wrong thing?” My kids and I have been so sad to read about expressions of racism in our neighborhood and anti-Semitic comments at the middle school down the street, and we've really struggled with how to respond to hateful comments about immigrants from people we have known for years. Where does all this other-ing come from? And how can we respond to it in a way that’s productive and positive? I don’t know the answers, but I think it starts with being committed to doing the right thing, and The Lions of Little Rock is a great book to kick off a conversation about what “the right thing” might look like for your family.

Shy, anxious Marlee has finally found a friend who really understands her, and thanks to brave, kind, outspoken Liz, Marlee has started to come out of her shell. But then Liz gets kicked out of Marlee’s segregated middle school because the administration finds out that Liz has only been passing as a white student. Marlee knows it’s wrong to treat Liz differently because of the color of her family’s skin, but racial tensions are high in Little Rock, where the local high schools have closed rather than follow the federal government’s order to integrate. With her mom urging her not to rock the boat and a whole city that seems to be against her, Marlee knows it’s going to take all of her courage to speak up for what she knows is right — but she’s finally found something that matters enough to face her fears.

Set during in Little Rock, Arkansas, during the turbulent 1958 school integration period, this book tackles the issue of racism in a thoughtful and meaningful way. The fact that Marlee’s friend Liz is able to “pass” as a white student really hammers home the arbitrary ridiculousness of racism, and I appreciate that the book (mostly) resists the urge to paint characters as clear villains or heroes. A lot of racist people, the book suggests, have been taught to think that way, which means they can be taught to think another way. Marlee and Liz’s friendship is particularly sweet — I like the way that they make each other better people. Marlee definitely gains a lot of strength and bravery from her relationship with Liz, but Liz also grows through her relationship with Marlee. And, of course, I love that Marlee loves math and classifying things and dreams of being involved with the budding space program, even though she can’t help noticing all the NASA scientists are men.

If I have to nitpick, I wish the adult characters had been as nuanced and adaptable as the kids — some of them, especially Marlee’s mom, never developed satisfactorily for me. (But maybe that’s always going to be how adults see children?) There’s a Bible verse that repeats through the story (“But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. Do not fear their threats; do not be frightened.”) — it felt to me the same way a verse of poetry or bit of the Dao De Jing or other inspirational tidbit would feel, an idea that Marlee carried as a kind of mental talisman, and the book doesn’t have any particularly Christian undertones. Endings are hard to pull off for character-driven stories like this one, and I think the plot gets away from itself a little bit at the end, but it doesn’t detract from the book’s overall quality for me.

Quotable: "We tell kids that sometimes. We pretend the world is straightforward, simple, easy. You do this, you get that. You're a good person and try your best, and nothing bad will happen. But the truth is, the world is much more like an algebraic equation. With variables and changes, complicated and messy. Sometimes there's more than one answer, and sometimes there is none. Sometimes we don't even know how to solve the problem. But usually, if we take things step by step, we can figure things out."


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What to Stream in Your Homeschool This February (You Know, If You Want)

Documentaries for Black History Month, a saucy Jane Austen adaptation, ideas for family movie nights, and more stuff that might be fun to watch with your homeschoolers this month.

I thought it would be fun to round up some of the relevant-to-homeschool-life shows and movies that are available for streaming this month. My definition of relevant-to-homeschool is pretty much anything that I would be excited to watch with my own kids, so your mileage may vary and I would love to know what you’re looking forward to in your family’s queue! (I've tried to flag R-rated or otherwise questionable programs, but every family is different, and it's always a good idea to vet something before you show it to your particular kids.)

 

The African Americans: Many Rivers to Cross
Streaming on: Amazon Prime

If you watch one documentary series for Black History Month, this is the one I’d choose: In six intelligent, detailed, wrenching episodes, Henry Louis Gates, Jr., traces the history of African Americans from the earliest days of slavery to the modern day.

Complementary reading: A Kid's Guide to African American History


I Am Not Your Negro
Streaming on: Amazon Prime

This emotionally charged documentary focuses on the book James Baldwin didn’t write and connects the historical civil rights movement to the growing Black Lives Matter movement. It’s fierce, intense, and powerful, and it will probably make you fall in love with James Baldwin and break your heart a little.

Complementary reading: The Fire Next Time


Akeelah and the Bee
Streaming on: Hulu

Honestly, I can’t believe we haven’t watched this one yet. It’s a movie about a spelling bee! It pretty much had me at “h-e-l-l-o.”

Complementary listening: The soundtrack for The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee


Ella Enchanted
Streaming on: Netflix

This Cinderella-story-with-a-twist feels more substantial in its print version, but the movie is fun for a family movie night. I think we’ll watch it one of those Fridays when we order pizza and don’t want to get off the couch.

Complementary reading: Ella Enchanted, natch


National Parks Adventure
Streaming on: Netflix

If you’ve ever wanted to watch a glorious cinematic backdrop of our national parks, here’s your chance: This IMAX film explores some of the best know parks in the United States and celebrates the history of the National Park Service and “America’s greatest idea.” Since we’ve been making the most of our free 4th grade park pass this year, I think it will be fun to add a few more parks to our road trip list.

Complementary reading: Your Guide to the National Parks: The Complete Guide to all 59 National Parks


Love and Friendship
Streaming on: Amazon Prime

Yes, thank you, we will watch a Jane Austen adaptation, especially one featuring a villainous Kate Beckinsale as a widow on the hunt for financial and social security. 

Complementary reading: Lady Susan


What We Do in the Shadows
Streaming on: Amazon Prime

Not everyone will want to watch a vampire mockumentary with her teenage daughter, but since my particular daughter likes nothing better than making fun of my obsession with Buffy, I’m hoping we can get a lot of laughs out of this film, which follows the adventures of four vampire flat mates. (Most of the laughs come from the fact that they all got vamped a different times, so they see things like, say, sneaking into nightclubs, from very different perspectives.) It's rated R, FYI, for violence and "adult situations."

Complementary reading: Sucks to Be Me: The All-True Confessions of Mina Hamilton, Teen Vampire (maybe)


Amelie
Streaming on: Hulu

I have loved this movie since the first time I saw it, and I am so excited to watch it with my now-16-year-old daughter. Amelie’s childhood loneliness makes her a particularly observant young adult, and over the course of the film, she slowly moves from watching other people’s lives to working to change them for the better. It’s a candy-tinted movie full of whimsy and charm — definitely on my Top 20 list. It's rated R for a couple of sex scenes.

Complementary reading: Big Fish: A Novel of Mythic Proportions


West Side Story
Streaming on: HBO

It’s the Sharks versus the Jets while Tony and Maria fall in love in a Technicolor New York City. This musical take on Romeo and Juliet keeps the feuds and vengeance (never a good combination) but adds racism and identity to its themes, plus a jaunty soundtrack and delightfully acrobatic dancing. Romeo and Juliet was our Shakespeare for the fall, so it should be really fun to watch this movie together.

Complementary reading: Romeo and/or Juliet: A Chooseable-Path Adventure


The Cutting Edge
Streaming on: Amazon Prime

I’m always going to pretend that the Winter Olympics makes this ice skating movie essential family viewing. (I’m also going to cry at the end of their routine every single time I watch it.)

Complementary reading: Skating Shoes


The Trader
Streaming on: Netflix (but not until 2/9)

I’m really excited about this Georgian documentary — I’m trying to engage my kids with more cultural anthropology, and this film, which follows a woman who collects old clothes and home goods to trade for food at a community market seems like a great point of entry. (Plus it’s only 22 minutes, so I’m hoping it will leave them wanting more.)

Complementary reading: Saturday Sancocho


Mozart in the Jungle
Streaming on: Amazon Prime (new season starts 2/16)

The fourth season starts on February 16. Even if you’re not a classical music fan, it’s easy to get hooked on this series about the players in NYC’s classical music scene.

Complementary reading: The Composer Is Dead


Lincoln
Streaming on: Netflix (but not until 2/21)

Daniel Day Lewis is a surprisingly convincing Abraham Lincoln in this biopic, which spends a lot of effort to get the details right, down to General Grant’s reddish-brown whiskers and Lincoln’s White House mantel decorations. It gets a bit bogged down in talk and cumbersome detailed (largely historical but a few invented), but as biopics go, it’s pretty good. I meant to watch it when we were covering the Civil War last year, but since we didn’t get to it, I am glad to get to watch it for Lincoln’s birthday month.

Complementary reading: Team of Rivals: The Political Genius of Abraham Lincoln


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Stuff We Like :: 2.2.18

All the links, books, and other stuff that are inspiring our homeschool life this week.

I’m mixing up the format here a little since I’ve been doing this for four years now! (How has it been four years?)

 

What’s happening at home/school/life

With Facebook’s new changes, the best way to get notified when new posts go up may be to sign up for email notification or the newsletter. (We won’t ever bug you with other stuff.)

Beverly has some ideas for doing a mid-year review. (It’s a great way to check in with your goals and make any adjustments before diving into the second half of the year.)

If you are looking for a funny book to read together, may I suggest our most recent Readaloud of the Week?

Suzanne had an excellent week in Library Chicken. (And I’m off to get on the endless holds list for A Gentleman in Moscow.)

One year ago, Suzanne was reading all the Hamilton and Hamilton-adjacent books she could get her hands on. (Also, I had some problems with Belzhar and we published a book-a-day reading list for Black History Month.)

Two years ago, Shelli was dabbling in calligraphy, building with Zoob, and reading Treasure Island. (Also, Lisa discovered the magic of following her kids’ passions and Shelli shared her family’s favorite math games.)

Three years ago, Tracy wondered why homeschooling always seems easier in hindsight.

Four years ago, Amy Hood joined the HSL columnists team. (The winter issue was her last — her family has moved on to other learning adventures — but I miss her already.)

 

The links I liked

I’m kinda thrilled that Murphy Brown is coming back

Remembering Ursula LeGuin. 

A record number of women are running for political office in 2018. 

Take the Good Place morality quiz. (I am Janet.) 

The Hairpin is going away so I just want to give a shoutout to one of my favorite pieces there: Six fairy tales for the modern woman

How do we talk about politics to people who don’t see what we see?

You shouldn’t work more than 39 hours a week.

 

What I’m reading and watching

I am counting down the days until the Wrinkle in Time movie with a massive Madeline L’Engle reread, starting with the Time Quintet, of course. We reread A Wrinkle in Time together, but I finished A Wind in the Door (now I want to write a whole science curriculum based around L’Engle’s books, don’t you?) and Many Waters (one of my stealth L’Engle favorites on my own). I’ve got A Swiftly Tilting Planet on my night table, but I am definitely not planning to stop there.

If you know me at all, you know that I will read a fluffy British rom-com about someone who works in a bookstore and moves to Scotland in a heartbeat, so the The Bookshop on the Corner was inevitably going to make its way to the top of my TBR list. Nina, recently laid-off from her library job, buys an old van, outfits it into a mobile bookshop, and travels around rural Scotland matchmaking books with their perfect readers. It is just exactly what it claims to be and nothing more, but since that was just what I wanted I have no complaints.

We are starting Un Lun Dun for our new readaloud, and I am super excited to get into it. I love Mievelle’s distinctively weird adult novels, so I have high hopes for this middle grades novel, that’s got a premise kind of similar to Neverwhere.

Are you watching The Good Place? We should all be watching The Good Place, but now it’s time for the finale, and I’m trying to figure out how long I can stretch out the last two episodes so that the season isn’t over for me. (Spoiler: It will not be long.)

 

What’s happening in our homeschool

My son really wants to take a class that’s a couple of grade levels above his — the issue isn’t so much that he’s not intellectually ready to handle the class but that he doesn't have the ability to keep up with the writing, so he’s been passionately and excitedly working on improving his handwriting. You guys, this is after years of being a seriously reluctant writer. I do not necessarily think that wanting-to-do-it is the answer to everything, but with this particular kid, it has been the catalyst for pretty much every single academic breakthrough. On my end, I’m feeding him writing workbooks (we have a bunch of different ones, so I have no particular system — I just want him to get all the practice he can) and encouraging him when I see an opportunity for him to write something down. And, I will admit, I’m breathing a sigh of relief because even though I know people all do seem to manage to get the hang of writing eventually, I have spent a lot of time worrying about it anyway.


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Library Chicken Update :: 1.31.18

On a particularly good Library Chicken week, Suzanne's reading short stories, British detectives, a little Virginia Woolf fan fiction, a charming novel totally worth the library hold list, and more.

Welcome to the weekly round-up of what the BookNerd is reading and how many points I scored (or lost) in Library Chicken. To recap, you get a point for returning a library book that you’ve read, you lose a point for returning a book unread, and while returning a book past the due date is technically legal, you do lose half a point. If you want to play along, leave your score in the comments!

LIBRARY CHICKEN PLAY-BY-PLAY: So today I dropped by the library to return three books (that I had not yet read, prompting much gnashing of teeth on my part) so that I could pick up three holds that would expire tomorrow. (I still have three additional holds waiting for me, but I’m hoping I can read three of my new books quickly — meaning in the next six days — and return them before those holds expire.) Meanwhile, I returned a couple of books from my husband’s card. (REMINDER: PLEASE DO NOT INFORM MY LIBRARY OF MY ILLICIT USE OF THE SPOUSAL CARD.) I had to wander around for a few minutes to give the librarian time to check in my newly-returned books before grabbing the holds, and I perhaps maybe might have picked up an additional book (by the author of one of the books I had to return unread) to check out on the spousal card. But there’s no problem here because I CAN QUIT ANYTIME I WANT. (In my defense, A.S. King’s I Crawl Through It looks bizarre and amazing and I was very sad about returning Please Ignore Vera Dietz unread.)

 

As you may be able to tell, I’m still working on my massive backlog of anthologies, along with trying to read more diversely. The American Women collection is a Dover Thrift Edition with 13 stories. It has a few classics I’ve read before (yes, I’ll read “The Yellow Wallpaper” again!) but mostly I picked it up because it included Louisa May Alcott’s fictionalized satire of her father’s (failed) utopian community: “Transcendental Wild Oats.” Black American Short Stories was a great introduction to writers I would like to read more of (and had surprisingly little overlap with another anthology I’ve read recently: The Best Short Stories by Black Writers 1899-1967). By far my favorite part of this chronologically organized collection was towards the back of the book, where we started to get some wonderful female writers, including Maya Angelou, Toni Cade Bambara, Alice Walker, and Eugenia Collier. The anthology that I most enjoyed, though, was Growing Up Ethnic in America, which collects authors like Sherman Alexie, Amy Tan, and Louise Erdrich in stories ranging from humorous to heart-breaking. This collection would make a great spine for a homeschool high school lit class, so it’s definitely HOMESCHOOL RECOMMENDED.

(LC Score: +3)


THE POISON ORACLE by Peter Dickinson

Peter Dickinson has written some of the most bizarre mysteries I’ve ever read and I’m having a great time working through his backlist. This one is set in an Arabian palace that’s shaped like an upside-down ziggurat and follows a British linguist who runs the Sultan’s private zoo while performing language experiments with his (the linguist’s) best friend, a chimpanzee. And then things get odd. Once again (as in the first of the James Pibble mysteries, The Glass-Sided Ants’ Nest), Dickinson has created a fictional primitive tribe and once again I’m a little worried that the entire premise falls somewhere between “very concerning” and “straight up super-racist” (and that’s not even including the racism in the linguist’s depiction of his Arab employer) but I just can’t resist Dickinson’s strange little books.

(LC Score: +1)


Two entries from two different mystery series by the same author. The Detective Wore Silk Drawers is the second Sergeant Cribb mystery, set in Victorian England, where Cribb investigates a murder linked to illegal bare-knuckle boxing. The Last Detective is a contemporary mystery (circa 1991) introducing detective Peter Diamond. And here’s where I admit that I did NOT like Det. Diamond AT ALL. Why did I continue reading the book, you ask? Because one of the plot points in the murder (which took place in Bath, England) revolved around the discovery of long-lost Jane Austen letters and OF COURSE I’M READING THAT. By the end of the book... well, I still didn’t like Diamond all that much, but if I could grow to love the sexist, racist, determinedly un-PC Andrew Dalziel (in Reginald Hill’s great series of mysteries beginning with A Clubbable Woman), I’m willing to give Diamond one more chance.

(LC Score: +2)


A GENTLEMAN IN MOSCOW by Amor Towles

I know y’all have heard of this one because EVERY LAST ONE OF YOU must have been on the hold list ahead of me at my library but oh my gosh was it ever worth the wait! In 1922, 30-year-old Count Rostov is sentenced to permanent house arrest (for the crime of being an aristocrat) at Moscow’s Hotel Metropol, but he’s determined to enjoy life nonetheless. It is SO CHARMING and DELIGHTFUL and we all need more of that right now so run out and read this immediately (or at least put yourself on your library’s hold list and settle in for the wait).

(LC Score: +1)


THE PHILOSOPHER KINGS by Jo Walton

This sequel to The Just City, continuing the story of the time-traveler philosophers who attempt to create Plato’s Republic in an experiment set up by the goddess Athena, is tied with A Gentleman in Moscow for my favorite read of the fortnight. As usual, I can never guess where Walton is going, but I always enjoy the ride. I don’t want to give away any spoilers but I will say that we get to meet another one of Athena’s relatives in this one.

(LC Score: +1)


HOW I LIVE NOW by Meg Rosoff

This was YA author Rosoff’s debut novel and wow, she started off with a bang. (No pun intended.) Rosoff’s narrator, Daisy, is an anorexic American teen who is sent off to England to stay with cousins just before the start of a massive world war that results in England’s occupation. The details of the war are deliberately left vague, leaving the reader to focus on Daisy’s powerful tale of determination and survival. Sometimes grim, but so good.

(LC Score: +1)


VANESSA AND HER SISTER by Priya Parmar

This time around in my Girl Who Read Woolf project I picked up this fictionalization of Virginia’s relationship with her sister Vanessa, told in Vanessa’s voice (with occasional letters to and from assorted Bloomsburians) and covering the time period from the beginnings of Bloomsbury up until Virginia’s marriage to Leonard. I wasn’t sure what to expect, but Parmar does a wonderful job with the characters’ voices and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

(LC Score: +1)


EDGAR ALLAN POE: HIS LIFE AND LEGACY by Jeffrey Meyers

We’re reading Poe in this semester’s short story class so I wanted to brush up on his life story. The short version: he was super-talented but also terrible. Meyers is, I think, overly generous to the irascible and thin-skinned author (and I found that I enjoyed Kenneth Silverman’s very scholarly Edgar A. Poe: A Mournful and Never-Ending Remembrance a bit more) but this is a solid introduction to Poe’s eventful life.

(LC Score: +1)


  • RETURNED UNREAD: LC Score -5
  • Library Chicken Score for 1/31/18: 6
  • Running Score: 12

 

On the to-read/still-reading stack for next week:

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Why You Need a Homeschool Review Mid-Year

The halfway point of your homeschool year is a great time to check in with your kids about what's working — and what isn't.

The halfway point of your homeschool year is a great time to check in with your kids about what's working — and what isn't.

mid-year homeschool review

For many homeschoolers, the year is halfway through, and maybe you are wondering what you’ve accomplished? The New Year is a perfect time to reflect on your homeschool plans, and give a good review of everything you have done so far. Rather than feel pressured to do what other homeschool families are doing, take time to reflect on what is, and isn’t working in your homeschool. 

A mid-point review will propel your homeschool forward and help you tweak areas that need a little extra attention. Here are five tips for reviewing your homeschool year.

Whenever a new year approaches, I start with the goals I set way back in the summer. 

 

1. Review your goals

Whenever a new year approaches, I start with the goals I set way back in the summer. The wonderful thing about goals, is that they can be changed. Take a hard look at what worked, what partially worked, or what didn’t work at all. Adjust your goals as needed, or write new ones. As homeschooling parents, we sometimes get goal setting wrong for our children. Just as we think we have it figured out, the kids do a complete one-eighty and turn us on our backsides. Kids learning does not happen in a straight line, so know that your goals will need adjusting, rewriting, or just plain tossing out. 

 

2. Stay organized

Staying organized is paramount in homeschooling. Believe it or not, I was far more organized homeschooling three children than I am with just one. Keeping up with three kids, each with five-plus subjects and extracurriculars, is enough to make any homeschooling mom a bit crazy. I had a detailed system each week for doing lesson plans, reviewing work, and reaching goals. As the last child moves up through the ranks, I find that I’m still organized, but perhaps far more relaxed. 

At the midpoint of the year, I review several things:

  • Is my child on track with the amount of work completed? Is he chapters behind, on track, or ahead? If lagging, a schedule change may be in order. If your child is ahead, it may indicate that a more challenging curriculum is needed. Be aware that children often learn in bursts and might tackle several topics or chapters very quickly. They might also struggle with topics that are challenging and spend significant time to complete them. A few weeks behind or ahead doesn’t likely warrant an immediate change. Observe to see if a speed-up or slow-down is a recurring pattern or the normal ebb and flow of childhood learning.

  • Is the quality of work acceptable? Is my child getting the work done just to get it off his plate? Or is he spending quality time on the topic? 

  • Are grades on point? If you use grading as a measurement in your homeschool, are your children where you want them to be? Do you need to outsource extra help to get them over a hump?

  • What curricula is not working? Don’t be afraid to toss that math curriculum if it’s making everyone miserable, and doesn’t encourage learning. 

  • Is your portfolio up to date? Those in states that require mid-year reporting, or portfolio review will want to stay on top of paperwork. Take care of that now before the mid-point review. 

  • Ask your children what is working, and do more of that. Toss out, adjust, rearrange, or revamp what isn’t working. Involved kids are more invested in their learning.

 

3. Don’t Worry What Others Are Doing

Comparison can quickly derail any homeschool. The quickest way to feel like a failure is to compare yourself with other homeschooling families. It doesn’t matter if the Jones’ children go to music class every day and play five instruments. Homeschooling allows us to meet our children where they are and to create a learning environment developed specifically for them. Comparison will always make you feel like you are living in a world of lack, rather than abundance. Celebrate the milestones and joys along the way, and resist the urge to compare. 

 

4. Avoid Overwhelm

Overwhelm can quickly turn the best day, into the worst. If a mid-year review has you wondering if you were ever out of your car for more than five minutes or wondering how you managed to get any homeschooling done, you might need to scale down what you are doing. Jam-packed schedules can lead to burnout and overwhelm. Are the fun things constantly being pushed to the side so that you can squeeze in one more activity? Take a hard look at your schedule to see what can be dropped in the coming year. Drop things that no longer serve you or your child (clubs, playgroups, co-ops, homeschool groups, music, classes, sports, etc.). Save your time for those things that make your heart sing. 

 

5. Ignore Opinions

Don’t give power to people who aren’t responsible for making decisions about your children.  Friends and relatives may be full of advice, ready to tell you what they think you should do. Relatives may be quick to point out all the things that they think are going wrong, where you lack in parenting skills and knowledge, and what your children need in terms of a solid education. Let them know that their opinion isn’t needed at this juncture because you have made the best decision possible for your kids. Spend some time creating appropriate responses that honor your choices, while emphatically letting them know that you have it all under control.

 

Mid-year reviews are a perfect time to reflect on all you have accomplished and where you want to be in the coming months. Reviews are also a great way to open the lines of communication between parent and child. 

If you feel like you are never accomplishing enough, keep a journal of your daily activities, milestones, and significant leaps in learning. It’s an incredible reminder of the path you have chosen in home educating your child!


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Readaloud of the Week: The Bad Guys

When you need a silly readaloud that will have everyone giggling, this book about a Big Bad Wolf determined to be a good guy (even if he has to be bad to do it!) delivers.

THE BAD GUYS by by Aaron Blabey

Sometimes, you just need a book that you can count on to make everyone laugh out loud, and that’s definitely what you get with The Bad Guys. Fans of funny elementary chapter books like Captain Underpants or The Stinky Cheese Man will be glad to discover a new silly series, but there’s a good chance everyone in your family will be giggling at this story.

Mr. Wolf (whose villainous ways you may remember from Red Riding Hood and The Three Little Pigs) is tired of everyone thinking he’s the bad guy, so he decides it’s time to reform his reputation. This is no easy task for a fairy tale villain, of course, so Mr. Wolf enlists the help of a few of his good friends: Mr. Snake (also known as the Chicken Swallower), Mr. Piranha (also known as the Butt Biter), and the notorious Mr. Shark. Together, this band of bad guys hatches the ultimate do-gooder scheme: Rescue to 200 dogs from the Maximum Security City Dog Pound. What could possibly go wrong?

Go into this read knowing that this book prioritizes the punch line above all else — including plot, character development, narrative continuity, and literary quality. Funny is the point, and there’s plenty of funny. With minimal text and witty illustrations, The Bad Guys is also a good gateway book for a reluctant reader, who may well pick it up for a reread after your readaloud. Mostly, though, it’s a book you can laugh your way through together, and when your homeschool needs a little dose of laughter, this book is a solid bet.

Quotable: “What do you do if a cat is stuck in a tree?”
    “Eat it.”


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New Books Roundup :: January 2018

What's coming to your library's "new releases" shelf: a delightful fantasy from the Netherlands, a wintry mystery full of puzzles to solve, a magical fantasy set in a world where the ordinary is extraordinary, and more.

As part of my resolution to do a better job keeping up with reviewing new books in 2018, I’m going to dedicate one Friday each month to rounding up interesting new books you might spot on your library’s “new releases” shelf.

 

THE SONG OF SEVEN by Tonke Dragt 

Technically, this isn’t a new book, but since it’s newly translated into English (reading challenge bingo square!), I say it counts. I also say it’s utterly delightful, and you should probably get your name on the library hold list, stat. I have fallen in love over the past couple of years with the weird sweetness — I don’t know how else to describe it — of Scandinavian children’s literature, and I can see that I am going to have to broaden my reading horizons to the Netherlands, too, now.

Frans van der Steg leads the least adventurous life imaginable — except for in his fantastic stories, which keep his class of mischievous students spellbound while he’s telling them. So when Frans gets a mysterious job offer that launches him into an even more mysterious adventure, he’s equal parts delighted and terrified. Frans finds himself tutoring a not-particularly-nice count’s charge at their isolated mansion just outside of town — a job, he discovers, that he’s been hand-selected to do by the boy’s friends in town, who are determined to get him away from his evil guardian. Mixed up in all this is the mystery of the treasure hidden by the mansion’s original count, which legend tells only this particular young boy can discover. Frans must figure out the clues, forge new alliances, and convince his new student that he’s on his side before time runs out.

There are lots of wonderfully weird bits — a happy forest dweller and an anarchistic biker might actually be the same person, a card trick-playing man might actually be a magician, and the mansion’s staircase maze interior creates moments both spooky and hilarious. I love the old-fashioned vibe of the language, which echoes both classic fairy stories and the swashbuckling stories Frans tells his students at school. Geert-Jan, the lonely heir and Frans’ new student, is both lonely and rebellious, and his developing letters-based relationship with the students in Frans’ class is one of the sweetest parts of the book. There’s a motley cast of characters, good and bad, and Frans is a likable hero — choosing an adult to anchor a late elementary/middle grades book like this is an unconventional choice, but something about it really works for me. I’m going to be recommending this to everyone.

(I just discovered that there is a Dutch television series based on this book that’s supposed to stick pretty closely to the story, and I cannot rest now until I get my hands on a copy.)


THIS IS NOT A LOVE LETTER by Kim Purcell

This is not a great book. There’s a lot of good stuff here: issues of class, race, and mental illness, which feel relevant and important. I like the set-up of the book, which consists of Jessie’s letters to her boyfriend — her smart, athletic, star student boyfriend, who also happens to be black in a very white town — after he goes missing after a jog. (While they were dating, he wrote her a love letter every day.) I think Jessie’s character, grown up just south of comfortably middle class, has a believable voice. I mean, I even like the cover, which has a wistfulness that promises good things. It just didn’t come together into a good book for me. Maybe it was the editing? It’s tricky with epistolary novels (which this counts as, I think, so reading challenge bingo!), I know, because you have to balance writing believable correspondence with moving a story forward clearly, but I don’t think this book found that particular line very often. Not a winner for me.


WINTERHOUSE by Ben Guterson 

I quite liked this middle grades book, though it feels a little like The Mysterious Benedict Society Lite, which may just be an unfortunate publishing coincidence. Still, if you resist the urge to compare it to the adventures of Reynie et al and read this book on its own merits, it’s fun read with an engaging central mystery and lots of likable characters.

Orphan Elizabeth Somers hasn’t had a happy Christmas for as long as she can remember, and this one promises to be the worst yet: Her awful aunt and uncle are shipping her off to a hotel in the middle of wintry nowhere with no suitable cold weather gear and no spending money for food or anything else. Winterhouse Hotel, a warm, welcoming place full of friendly faces, delicious meals, and a generous staff, turns out to be a delightful surprise, and Elizabeth can’t decide if she’s happier about the hotel’s marvelous library (she loves to read) or her new friend Freddy, who’s also spending Christmas alone and who shares Elizabeth’s love of word games. Everything would be perfect if it weren’t for the creepy couple who seem to be paying a little too much attention to Elizabeth and the book she shouldn’t have stolen from the library’s restricted section.

The big-picture mystery is a little unpolished and some of the more obvious plot twists feel like they drag out forever, but the strength of this book is in its quotidian charm. Elizabeth’s bookish inner monologue is a pleasure to follow, and the daily rhythms of Winterhouse come to life so that you, too, feel like a guest at this charmingly over-the-top holiday hotel. I loved the little scenes, exploring the hallways or visiting the kitchen, and the little moments, like Elizabeth and Freddy’s scavenger hunt, much more than the big reveals or adventure. And kudos to this book, which is already showing up on Goodreads as Winterhouse #1, for ending on a solid resolution — sure, it’s clear that more adventures could follow, but it definitely does not indulge in my middle grades lit pet peeve of ending the first book on a giant cliffhanger. I’d recommend this to bookish kids who enjoyed The Greenglass House or Pseudonymous Bosch. 


THE BONE THIEF by Alyson Noel

Here’s another middle grades book that might scratch a fantasy loving kid’s readerly itch.

Grimsly is the only regular kid in Quiver Hollow, where being extraordinary is the norm. His friend Ollie can bend spoons just by looking at them. Another friend can levitate at will. The waterfalls flow up, and magic is everywhere. Still, orphaned Grimsly feels like he’s found his niche with his adopted wizard guardian and his part-time job as pet funeral director. In fact, he’s one of the most popular kids at his school — which, he worries, may be causing major problems when the town’s magic starts to drain away. The problem turns out to be even more sinister, and Grimsly must set out on a quest to restore the weirdness to his adopted hometown before it disappears forever.

The best thing about this book is its Tim Burton-ish vibe, which resonates through the book in weird and delightful ways. It’s fun to see the trope of a magical kid in the real world subverted: Grimsly’s total ordinariness is completely out of place in the fantastic community of Quiver Hollow, but it may turn out to be what makes him special. There’s a little icky creepiness, a deliciously evil headmaster at a particularly nasty school, and just enough danger and tension to keep you on the edge of your seat, but it’s the world building and the characters that really shine. The worst thing? The villain feels a little cartoonish — his motives aren’t satisfactory at all — and there are a lot of questions that never get answered about Grimsly’s origins and family history. (There are hints and explanations, but they don’t really gel into anything coherent by the end of the book.) Also: I am not a fan of people murdering rabbits, even — perhaps especially? — in literature. Save the rabbits! But definitely consider this book for a middle grader who isn’t quite ready for something like Miss Peregrine’s Home for Peculiar Children or Neil Gaiman’s more grown-up stuff.


THE IMMORTALISTS by Chloe Benjamin 

I read this because I kept seeing it mentioned everywhere, and I was ready to fall in love with it — but alas, it wasn’t for me.

The premise is interesting enough: Four siblings visit a fortune teller in 1969, and she tells them when each of them is going to die. All four kids become obsessed by what she’s told them, and the fortune teller’s prediction shapes their lives in significant ways. Would you want to (maybe) know your fate? It’s an interesting idea, but the execution didn’t work for me. Maybe part of that isn’t the book’s fault — from the descriptions, I expected some elements of magical realism that never emerged, so I felt like the story left me kind of hanging. But I don’t think my expectations were the only problem: A lot of what happens in this book ends up feeling kind of trite and even a little manipulative (which wouldn’t bother me so much if the heavy-handed emotional manipulation were actually effective, but it’s mostly not), and I never really connected with the characters. Not my favorite, but some people have raved about it, so I could just be missing the point.


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Library Chicken Update :: Top 10 Fiction Books Read in 2017

Suzanne's best fiction reads of last year include more than one addictive series, plus haunted houses, Sherlock homages, classic Hollywood in space, and more.

Welcome to the weekly round-up of what the BookNerd is reading and how many points I scored (or lost) in Library Chicken. To recap, you get a point for returning a library book that you’ve read, you lose a point for returning a book unread, and while returning a book past the due date is technically legal, you do lose half a point. If you want to play along, leave your score in the comments!

It’s still January, right? Which means there’s still time to sneak in one last Top Ten Favorites List before tackling all the books on The Millions Great 2018 Book Preview or trying to catch up with everything on the 2018 Tournament of Books shortlist. So if you’re looking for some great fiction to read this year, here are my suggestions!

 

TOO LIKE THE LIGHTNING: BOOK ONE OF TERRA IGNOTA by Ada Palmer

It does feel just a bit risky to put book one of a trilogy on a top ten list when I haven’t read books two and three yet. I’ve been burned before by trilogies that started out amazing and went rapidly downhill. But Palmer’s vision of the 25th century — written in the style of an 18th century novel — was too wonderful to leave off the list. I can’t wait to read her follow-ups: Seven Surrenders and The Will to Battle.


THE IMPERIAL RADCH series by Ann Leckie

One science fiction series that I did read in its entirety in 2017 was Leckie’s space opera trilogy: Ancillary Justice, Ancillary Sword, and Ancillary Mercy. We follow our protagonist to a satisfying conclusion at the end of the series, but Leckie’s galactic empire is big enough to hold many other tales, and I’m looking forward to reading Provenance, a new novel set in the world of the Imperial Radch.


THE SMALL CHANGE trilogy by Jo Walton

Walton goes back in time to rewrite history in her Small Change series, which imagines a near-fascist England after Germany is victorious in World War II. Farthing, Ha’Penny, and Half a Crown are alternate histories that read like thrillers, and (unfortunately) they felt particularly relevant in 2017.


THE SUPERNATURAL ENHANCEMENTS by Edgar Cantero

I love haunted house stories. I love epistolary novels. Cantero thoughtfully puts these two genres together for me in The Supernatural Enhancements, so of course I because an instant fan (and early reader of his Cthulhu vs. Scooby Doo follow-up, Meddling Kids.)


WHITE IS FOR WITCHING by Helen Oyeyemi

Another haunted house story — plus this one has creepy twins, so you know it’s going to be awesome. It was hard to pick just one Oyeyemi to put on the list, given that I spent 2017 binging through her backlist, but this was the first novel I read by her and it’s unforgettable, along with being super-creepy in the best way.


RADIANCE by Catherynne M. Valente

Space whales, lunar movie studios, and a private investigator on the trail of a missing filmmaker: this novel is almost impossible to describe as it jumps from film noir to silver-screen gossip columns to serious Oyeyemi-level creepiness. Try to hold on to something sturdy when you’re reading it.


THE INTUITIONIST by Colson Whitehead

Before the zombies of Zone One and the Pulitzer Prize-winning The Underground Railroad, Whitehead wrote this strange and moving story of the first black female elevator inspector and her involvement in the great schism between the Empiricists and the Intuitionists. I would not have guessed that anyone could make the philosophy of elevator inspection fascinating enough to carry me through an entire novel, but I should know better than to underestimate Whitehead.


ALVA AND IRVA: THE TWINS WHO SAVED A CITY by Edward Carey

I’ve noticed that “weird” seems to have been a theme for my 2017 reading, but even among the other odd and bizarre entries on this list, Carey’s novel stands out. Alva and Irva are twin sisters obsessed with the scale model they’ve created of the city they live in, Entralia. Carey is best known for his Iremonger trilogy (for younger readers), but his earlier adult novels are also great (and very strange) reads.


DUST AND SHADOW: AN ACCOUNT OF THE RIPPER KILLINGS BY DR. JOHN H. WATSON by Lyndsay Faye

Sherlock, Watson, and Jack the Ripper: this is the best post-Conan-Doyle Holmes novel I’ve ever read. In other great news, Faye’s new collection, The Whole Art of Detection: Lost Mysteries of Sherlock Holmes, means that I can spend even more time adventuring with my favorite Victorian sleuth.


ORLANDO by Virginia Woolf

I’ve always heard that this time-traveling gender-swapping novel of romance and adventure was charming and utterly delightful. Turns out that it is even more charming and utterly delightful than I expected.


And Because I Read So Many Great Books Last Year, Here Are a Dozen More Awesome Novels:


Lincoln in the Bardo: A Novel
By George Saunders
Magpie Murders: A Novel
By Anthony Horowitz
House of Leaves
By Mark Z. Danielewski



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Maggie Martin Maggie Martin

A Resolution to Let English Be Part of the Humanities

Our culture needs the lessons of great literature like never before. In 2018, let’s resolve to elevate literature back to its position in the humanities.

Does English seem wildly different than it was in your school days? For me, high school English class in the 90s (at least for the good years) was presided over by a teacher who seemed like a wise guide who could help us walk through mental exercises that would lead us toward being thoughtful, competent, wise adults ourselves. I’m sure that the actual state standards were more detailed than this, but I imagine that our English teachers operated from a few major objectives: read good books with the students, talk about the big ideas in those books, and teach the students to write.

Then the standardized testing movement roared through our country and, along with pressure from the well-intentioned notion that every child should shoot for college admission, consequently English class became reduced more and more to a means to an end. Now, instead of pondering the choices that led T.S. Eliot’s J. Alfred Prufrock to have those overwhelming feelings of hollowness and regret, teachers are expected to spend more time checking that everyone can answer a question on the end of course test about an inference that could be made in line 40, which literary device is used in lines 23 and 24, or how context clues could be used to ascertain the definition of a word in line 32.     

And it’s not just a thing that’s happened in public schools. Standardized test culture has influenced the homeschooling community as well, whether it’s because many of us are required by state guidelines to submit our children to periodic standardized testing, because we want to steer our college-bound kids toward ACT and SAT scores that will open up as many scholarship and admission opportunities as possible, because we know that we might need to place our children into the public school system and don’t want them to be completely unacclimated, or because of the pressure we feel from a culture that increasingly wants everything quantified. 

But… have you read the online comments section lately on… well, just about anything? Whatever your politics, I think we can agree that people these days seem meaner and less empathetic.

Our culture needs the lessons of great literature like never before. In 2018, let’s resolve to elevate literature back to its position in the humanities. Let’s resolve to look to the big ideas in literature as a balm that will insulate our children from a world of keyboard bullies. Let’s resolve to look to books to help us remember those common denominators that unite us.


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Readaloud of the Week: Audubon, On The Wings Of The World

Naturalist John James Audubon's biography comes to life in this gorgeous graphic novel that's a must-read for every bird lover.

AUDUBON, ON THE WINGS OF THE WORLD by Fabien Grolleau

Audubon, On the Wings of the World is a beautiful graphic novel about the life of John James Audubon. It was written by Fabien Grolleau and illustrated by Jérémie Royer. Most the story is based on Audubon’s own writings about the adventures he had while journeying through America at the start of the 19th century on a mission to paint every bird that inhabited this land.  With only a few artists’ tools, an assistant, a guide, and a gun, he encountered many dangers, foul weather, and illness. He also had a difficult time being taken seriously by scientists. But nothing would deter him from his life’s quest. Royer’s illustrations are the best part of the book, and they will make you want to linger over the pages. 

If your family loves birds, this is a must read. My boys and I love birds, and I’ve tried to teach them a little about John James Audubon in the past, and I’ve showed them his paintings, which you can view and download for free at audubon.org. When I saw this book recommended by another birder on Twitter, I checked it out from the library, and I loved it. I read it to my eleven and eight-year-old boys, and they liked it too. I would love to follow it up someday with a more detailed biography of John James Audubon. I know liberties had to be taken to make the graphic novel work.

Some parents might want to read it over before letting their children read it, and you may want to read it with them, too. Naturalists in the 1800s hunted and collected their specimens before drawing them, and Audubon followed this practice. This book also makes it pretty clear that he was married to his quest to record all the birds of North America, so he was a pretty horrible father and husband. Since the dialogue in the book is sparse, I sometimes had to explain to my boys what was happening. They weren’t quite old enough to understand all the facial expressions and other visual clues in the illustrations. There are some mild swear words and a few illustrations of Native American women with naked chests.  

I think it would make a great supplement to any homeschool’s American history studies, especially for a mature student.


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Amy Sharony Amy Sharony

Stuff We Like :: 1.19.18

Snow days, why all those books you haven't read yet deserve a spot on your shelf, why are there so many terrible history books for your Kindle, recent reading, and more stuff we like.

We got snow! That makes twice this winter, and I loved having an excuse to snuggle up in our pajamas for a bonus vacation day right after the start of the new semester. (I also stressed intensely about whether I need to schedule a make-up day for my first AP English class of the semester, but I got to wear my pajamas all day, so I think the balance worked out in my favor.)

 

around the web

I love the idea of the antilibrary—instead of feeling guilty about the books we buy and don’t actually get around to reading (I’m looking at you, The Corrections), we should see them as reminder of all the things we don’t know, all the things we still have the opportunity to learn. I’m not sure this will convince Jason that I need another bookcase in the bedroom, but you know I am going to try.

If you need a laugh this week, you need to read these examples of toxic femininity in the workplace: “Members of the all-female upper management of a company never think to talk about sex in the workplace. As a result, they forget that sex exists and uniformly fail to perpetuate the human race. This is a global phenomenon that accelerates the demise of our species.”

It’s not a short read, but I thoroughly enjoyed this piece about the seismic shifts happening in U.S. pop culture right now. With shout-outs to everything from Moonlight to Get Out to Ellen Willis, it’s a fascinating look at how the present political climate is shaping art—and a timely reminder of why critics matter.

There are SO MANY TERRIBLE history books out there right now, and if you have accidentally bought one when it was cheap for the Kindle, you will definitely want to read this.

 

at home/school/life

on the blog: Suzanne’s starting fresh with Library Chicken for 2018

also on the blog: Beverly has some great advice for keeping the holiday spirit alive in your homeschool all year

one year ago: A funny fantasy book list, or what to read when you’ve run out of Edward Eager

two years ago: A Mary Tudor reading list

three years ago: The importance of me-time for homeschool moms

 

reading list

I picked up a copy of The Knockoff by Plum Sykes because I will pretty much read any book about people working at glossy women’s magazines, and I loved the idea of this one, about an older editor-in-chief who must suddenly cope with the digital magazine world. (I may identify with this premise a little.) It was a bummer, though — the main character wasn’t that sympathetic, and her foil, the up-and-coming digital guru was so utterly unlikable and ridiculously villainous that it just got silly. I’m glad it was a quick read because life is too short, you know?

A much better read was Cloud and Wallfish, which has been on my list for a while and which we’re finally getting around to. It’s set in Berlin in the late 1980s, before the Wall came down, and Noah’s parents have given him a new name, a new birthday, and a new bedroom—in Berlin. Luckily, he also finds a new friend, Claudia, who lives in the same apartment building and who suspects that her parents’ deaths might have been invented by her grandmother. Claudia and Noah (now called Jonah) create their own secret world by covering maps of Berlin with their own drawings—these parts may remind you of Bridge to Terebithia, with the increasing pull of imaginary worlds. We really enjoyed this. It’s the best kind of middle grades historical fiction with a story and characters that feel genuinely compelling and tons of historical information. (I feel like I learned so much about the history of Berlin reading this.)

Also read: The Ambrose Deception by Emily Ecton, a love letter to Chicago that tries to borrow some of the puzzle-solving charm of books like The Mysterious Benedict Society and Book Scavenger with mixed success. (If you enjoy those kinds of books — or if you love Chicago — it’s definitely worth putting on your list.)

 

at home

My son got an iPod for Hanukkah (not from me), which he mainly uses to make YouTube videos and send me dog memes all day. I’m ambivalent about devices for kids—I don’t love how addictive they are, but they can be so incredibly useful—but I do really love when my phone beeps and there’s a pug pun.

If you’re following along with the Classical humanities class I’m teaching at Jason’s hybrid high school, we’re kicking off the spring semester reading list with Antigone, Nicomachean Ethics, and SPQR. 


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This Week in Library Chicken :: 1.17.18

Suzanne kicks off a new year of library chicken with mysteries, biographies, short stories, and some decidedly weird fiction.

Welcome to the weekly round-up of what the BookNerd is reading and how many points I scored (or lost) in Library Chicken. To recap, you get a point for returning a library book that you’ve read, you lose a point for returning a book unread, and while returning a book past the due date is technically legal, you do lose half a point. If you want to play along, leave your score in the comments!

It’s the first Library Chicken Update of 2018! We’re wiping the slate clean and starting over from scratch in honor of the new year. I’m looking forward to a great year of reading, but mostly I’ve been busy rearranging my to-read list and (finally) copying it over from Amazon Wish Lists to my goodreads account. There’s no easy way to do this (that I’ve discovered), so I’m going through and transferring it book by book, which takes a while when you have [ACTUAL NUMBER REDACTED BECAUSE I’M EMBARRASSED BY THE EXCESSIVENESS OF IT ALL] books on your list. It’s a wonderful way to waste time online, though, and I’m much more cheerful afterward than if I’d spent the same amount of time on Facebook or Twitter being brought up to date on all the horrible things happening in the world.

Also new this year, in an effort to make it look like I’m accomplishing something by lying around and reading all day (and because it seems like a lot of fun), I’m officially tackling three reading challenges: BookRiot’s Read Harder Challenge, the Popsugar Reading Challenge, and of course our very own HSL’s 2018 Reading Challenge! Happy reading, everyone!

 

THE CASE OF THE GILDED FLY by Edmund Crispin

Gervase Fen #1. New year, new mystery series! This 1940s series stars an Oxford don as our sleuth. In fact, as Fen says early on in this erudite murder mystery, set around the production of a new play in Oxford: “I’m the only literary critic turned detective in the whole of fiction.” I love it when books break the fourth wall, so I’m definitely looking forward to #2.

(LC Score: +1)


FUN PHANTOMS: TALES OF GHOSTLY ENTERTAINMENT edited by Sean Manley and Gogo Lewis

THE OXFORD BOOK OF ENGLISH DETECTIVE STORIES edited by Patricia Craig

This week I start the short stories class at our hybrid homeschool (Poe! Jackson! Wodehouse! more Poe!), but I’ve still got anthologies stacked all over the floor, waiting to be read. Now that I’ve (re)discovered the joys of short fiction I have, as usual, become a bit obsessed. I’ve taken a break from The Modern Tradition this and 50 Short Masterpieces that to veer into genre with some ghost and detective stories. Fun Phantoms is an unusual 1979 collection that specializes in humorous ghost stories, some of which are classics (e.g., “The Canterville Ghost” and “The Open Window”) and some of which (ahem) are not. Meanwhile, The Oxford Book of English Detective Stories takes us all the way from the classic early days of alibis based on train schedules and locked room whodunits to the 1980s with P.D. James and Ruth Rendell. I do have a bone to pick with the editor: at a minimum, a story included in an anthology of “detective stories” should actually have a detective in it. If it has a murder but no detective, that’s a crime story, and that, I would think, belongs in a whole other anthology.

(Challenge Accepted: HSLs “A Collection of Short Stories”)

(LC Score: +2)


THE WEIRD: A COMPENDIUM OF STRANGE AND DARK STORIES edited by Ann and Jeff VanderMeer

“Weird” is a difficult genre to describe —it’s something of a cross between horror and sf/fantasy, and it may be my favorite kind of writing just now. A shelf of “Modern Weird” would include books by Neil Gaiman, China Mieville, Helen Oyeyemi, and the co-editor of this anthology, Jeff VanderMeer, but this massive (over 1100 pages!) and thoroughly enjoyable collection goes back in time and around the world to collect weird tales from a diverse group of authors. Full of wonderful and disturbing stories, this anthology is more than an introduction to the genre, it’s an education.

(LC Score: +1)


CARTER & LOVECRAFT by Jonathan L. Howard

THE BALLAD OF BLACK TOM by Victor LaValle

H.P. Lovecraft is classic weird, and modern authors have been having a wonderful time in the past few years revisiting and revising him. And he does need some revising: H.P. is unfortunately as well known for his virulent racism and sexism as he is for tentacled mind-melting hell-beasts. Howard and LaValle both play with that reputation in different ways. In Carter & Lovecraft, an ex-cop private eye gets mixed up with the last Lovecraft descendant — who happens to be both female and black — and a plot to change the rules of reality in very unpleasant ways. (SPOILER: By the end of the novel things are looking fairly bleak for our heroes, but the sequel, ominously titled After the End of the World, just came out for all of us who want to read what happens next.) In The Ballad of Black Tom, LaValle reimagines Lovecraft’s “The Horror at Red Hook”, often described as H.P.’s most racist tale, by telling the story from a different perspective, creating a powerful novella that comments both on the original work and on modern day society. (SPOILER: It also includes a tentacled hell-beast or two.)

(LC Score: +2)


EVERY HEART A DOORWAY by Seanan McGuire

I’d had this fantasy novella (first in the Wayward Children trilogy) about a boarding school for children who had disappeared into magical worlds and had trouble readjusting when they returned to their old lives on my list for a while, but Amy’s positive review pushed it to the top, just in time for the release of the final book in the series. Can’t wait to read the next one!

(Challenge Accepted: home|school|life’s “The First Book in a Series” and “A Book You Can Read in One Day”, ReadHarder’s “A One-Sitting Book”)

(LC Score: +1)


THE COMMON READER: FIRST SERIES by Virginia Woolf

I’ve read several of Woolf’s novels, but this is the first time I’m tackling her essays. Her narrative voice is, as always, engaging and very pleasant to spend time with, but I was a little intimidated by the French and Greek quotations that she apparently expects her “common” reader to be able to handle.

(LC Score: +1)


VIRGINIA WOOLF: A BIOGRAPHY by Quentin Bell

PORTRAIT OF A MARRIAGE: VITA SACKVILLE-WEST AND HAROLD NICOLSON by Nigel Nicolson

I picked these up as part of my ongoing Girl-Who-Reads-Woolf project. Bell’s biography of his aunt Virginia is the original account of her life, but I didn’t expect to be so charmed by his wry narration. He treats his topic with the casual informality appropriate to a nephew and I only wish he’d written a dozen other Bloomsbury biographies for me to read. In Portrait of a Marriage, Nicolson presents the autobiographical writings of his mother (and Virginia’s great friend), Vita, along with his own history of her life. Vita’s portion is mostly an overwrought account of her wild affair with Violet Keppel/Trefusis, still ongoing at the time of her writing. Both books together present a fascinating account of two unique partnerships made up of talented and original people: Virginia and Leonard, and Vita and Harold.

(LC Score: +2)


RETURNED UNREAD: LC Score -4

 

Library Chicken Score for 1/17/18: 6

  • Running Score: 6
  • Challenges Met: 4

 

On the to-read/still-reading stack for next week:


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Beverly Burgess Beverly Burgess

How to Keep the Spirit of Gratitude Alive All Year

Keep the spirit of gratitude and giving alive in your homeschool after all the winter holidays are over with these tips from Beverly.

Gratitude. It seems to be in the forefront of our thoughts especially during the holidays. But, how many of us genuinely practice gratitude all year long? 

Aside from the heart-tugging commercials about donating to your local food shelter, or adopting a family on Christmas; there are ways to teach your children how to have a heart of gratitude not just in the giving seasons.  As homeschoolers, we have the unique opportunity to instill and share values of gratitude with our children all throughout the year.

 

1. SHOW YOUR APPRECIATION

Encouraging gratitude in children is best done by modeling the behavior. Daily routines of expressing gratitude help children understand that the practice begins at home. 

Try some of the following:

  • At dinner time, have each child and adult write down one thing they are grateful for that happened that day.
  • Place the folded pieces of writings in a gratitude jar. At the end of the week or even on New Year’s Day, read the entire jar’s worth of writing. It’s a great reminder not only of how much you have shared as a family but about those who care for you each day.

 

2. ASK FOR HELP

Asking for help is something that everyone must do at some point in life. Asking younger children to help with meal preparation, clean up, and daily chores helps them realize that contributing makes a difference to everyone. People feel appreciated when others lend a hand and help. Talk to your children about the experiences of both giving and receiving help.

 

3. VOLUNTEER

Regular volunteering can foster a lifelong attitude of giving back to community. While volunteering around the holidays is always needed, making time to serve all year long, exposes children to the long-term benefits of helping and gratitude.

Families sometimes find it difficult to search for opportunities for younger children to volunteer, but children of all ages have many opportunities to give in their community. Those people who aren’t as socially active as they used to be often love the presence of young children and helpers. After volunteering, ask your children how they felt, how they think those that they helped felt, and what more they could do to help in the future. Remind children that gratitude is often unspoken, and that their purpose is to help others, even if words of thanks don’t always accompany the act. 

Consider some of the following if you’re having trouble locating volunteer opportunities:

  • Visiting nursing homes to play board games with the residents or to sing songs.
  • Maintaining a garden at group homes.
  • Helping at a CSA (community supported agriculture) farm.
  • Donating food and care at animal shelters.
  • Offering lawn care to elderly.
  • Spending some time in a soup kitchen or clothing outlet for the homeless.
  • Putting together bags for the needy with toiletries, lip balm, protein bars, socks, gloves, and hats. Check with your local shelter to see what they need.
  • Knitting or crocheting hats for premature babies.
  • Walking a neighbor’s dog. 

Try to make volunteering a regular tradition to foster gratitude all year long.

 

4. GIVE EXPERIENCES, NOT THINGS

Instead of Grandma and Grandpa giving your children plastic toys for every holiday and birthday, encourage them to give the gift of experiences and time. Experiences help grow and deepen family connections. 

Ask relatives and friends for memberships to the zoo, or aquarium. Or perhaps a special lunch and movie date can be become a new tradition. Take lots of photos of the event, and gift the giver with a special card or photo album of the wonderful day as a thank you. Children will remember and cherish the special outing for years to come.

 

5. EXPRESS GRATITUDE FREELY AND OFTEN

Children learn from observing the behavior around them. Be sure to express your own gratitude for their efforts, and for being part of the family. Show kindness and gratitude when you are out in stores or markets or whenever kindness is shown to you. It’s easy to overlook small efforts as not being worthy of gratitude, but even small acts of kindness go a long way in the eyes of children.  

Instilling the gifts of gratitude in the hearts of children does not happen overnight.  


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Amy Sharony Amy Sharony

Readaloud of the Week: Stuart’s Cape

Winsome, worrisome Stuart figures out the key to adventure in this charming early chapter book.

STUART’S CAPE by Sara Pennypacker

“Adventures only happen to people with capes,” Stuart realizes, but that’s okay because he’s got a hundred of his dad’s old ties that he can use to DIY a cape for himself.

If you love Pennypacker’s Clementine and Waylon books, you’ll be happy to discover this whimsical early chapter book. Stuart is the new kid in town, and he’s worried about everything: man-eating spiders lurking in the closet of his new bedroom, getting locked in the bathroom at his new school, not making any friends in third grade. Antsy and anxious waiting for what’s going to happen, Stuart decides to make his own adventure, starting with a cape he makes by stapling together his day’s tie collection and one purple sock. And sure enough, Stuart’s new cape sets him off on fantastic adventures, including learning how to play pretend with help from a dinosaur and a gorilla, growing giant toast, and learning how to fly with a little assistance from his Aunt Bubbles’s angel food cake. (Of course, once he’s soaring through the sky, he has to figure how to get back to the ground. . .) It’s silly, playful fun that also manages to be sensitive to the very real worries of childhood.

This is one of those laugh-out-loud readalouds that you can finish in a couple of relaxed reading sessions, which makes it a great get-you-groove-back readaloud for your post-holiday homeschool. Stuart is a winsome little worrier, and the book’s black-and-white illustrations are sweet and playful. And if you love it, you can follow right up with the equally charming sequel Stuart Goes to School.


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Stuff We Like :: 1.12.18

What it's like to think like a bee, erasing women in the workplace, the messy magic of the home office, fantastic books, and more stuff we like.

Happy weekend!

 

around the web

I still remember how it exciting it was when Bridget Hughes (a girl!) got the top job at The Paris Review, and I am a huge fan of the work she’s done at A Public Space. So this piece about how Hughes has been systematically erased from the Review’s history made me really sad.

I think all of us who work from home can appreciate this ode to the home offices that would never be featured in home design magazines but that we love anyway.

Haven’t you always wondered what it would be like to be a bee? This is my favorite neurobiology read of 2018 so far. :)

 

at home/school/life

in the magazine: I just signed off on the winter issue’s final proofs, so expect it in your inbox soon!

on the blog: Suzanne’s favorite nonfiction of 2017

one year ago: Suzanne’s guide to reading the Brontes

two years ago: Tips for organizing your homeschool library

three years ago: Carving out time for yourself

 

reading list

I put The Buried Book: The Loss and Rediscovery of the Great Epic of Gilgamesh on my library holds list back when I was thinking about teaching it as part of a classical literature curriculum. but I’m just now getting around to reading it and I want to recommend it to everyone. It’s fascinating! The book starts in the 19th century with an English engraver who basically taught himself cuneiform with the tablets at the British Museum and started to piece together the story of Gilgamesh, then meanders — along several equally interesting detours — back 4,000 years to the time of the historical Gilgamesh. Some of the literary connections the author tries to make feel like a stretch, and I’m not sure he really dives into the more interesting implications of some of his ideas, but overall, this was a terrific read.

Apparently, this was a heavy-on-nonfiction week, because I am also going to rave about The Goddess of Anarchy: The Life and Times of Lucy Parsons, American Radical. I did not know much about Parsons beyond the blurb on the book jacket going in, and I definitely had that “How is she not in a history book!?” feeling as I was reading. Parsons was born to an enslaved woman about a decade before the Civil War, but her radical labor organizing feels way ahead of its time — Parsons (and her husband who was executed for his inciting rhetoric that may have provoked a Chicago bombing) believed that armed struggle was the only way to destroy capitalism. Honestly, the book is a little on the dry side writing-wise, but Parsons is so interesting that it felt like I was reading a novel.

Our readaloud lately is What Goes Up by Katie Kennedy, and it’s pretty much exactly the right blend of funny, smart, and exciting. Rosa, Eddie, and hundreds of other science-smart teens are hoping to get into a top secret NASA program, but the competition is stiff — and the program comes with plenty of hazards, too. I feel like this is kind of a stealth book right now, so get it at the library before other people start discovering it and the hold list gets crazy.

 

at home

Jason got a Roku stick thingy for Hanukkah, which came with a free month of HBO — so, way behind the rest of the world, we’re binging Game of Thrones. There are many interesting things about it, but seriously, why does HBO only make series where women are generally marginalized and abused characters? It’s like every show is The Handmaid’s Tale. 


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Library Chicken Update: Top Nonfiction Books Read in 2017

Suzanne's favorite nonfiction reads of 2017 grappled with race in America, considered communities forged by disaster, illuminated under-appreciated women in history, and more.

Welcome to the weekly round-up of what the BookNerd is reading and how many points I scored (or lost) in Library Chicken. To recap, you get a point for returning a library book that you’ve read, you lose a point for returning a book unread, and while returning a book past the due date is technically legal, you do lose half a point. If you want to play along, leave your score in the comments!

Happy New Year! Before we return to our regularly scheduled Library Chicken updates, we’re going to take a look back at the past year with Library Chicken’s Top Ten Favorite Nonfiction Books Read in 2017 so you can load up your to-read list. 

2017 was a big year for nonfiction here at Library Chicken HQ. Usually, nonfiction makes up about 20-25% of my annual reading, but this year it was up to a whopping 31%, including the following fantastic reads (in no particular order):

 

THE GIFTS OF IMPERFECTION: LET GO OF WHO YOU THINK YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO BE AND EMBRACE WHO YOU ARE by Brene Brown

Self-help books are something of a gamble for me. Am I going to read something that can help and inspire me as I navigate daily life, or am I going to experience pages of cutesy (and trademarked) Self-Help Lingo? (Don’t forget to buy the calendar, daily planner, and ticket to the seminar!) Brown’s short but engaging book definitely fell in the first column. I was still thinking about it (and enthusiastically pushing it on my very patient friends) months after I first read it.


A PARADISE BUILT IN HELL: THE EXTRAORDINARY COMMUNITIES THAT ARISE IN DISASTER by Rebecca Solnit

I really needed this book in 2017. Rebecca Solnit (author of Men Explain Things to Me) writes about ordinary people in extraordinary circumstances, and how humans generally respond to tragedy and disaster not with panic or selfishness, but by reaching out a helping hand to their neighbors. A great read if you’re looking to restore your faith in your fellow man.


NEUROTRIBES: THE LEGACY OF AUTISM AND THE FUTURE OF NEURODIVERSITY by Steve Silberman

A fascinating look at the history of autism as a diagnosis. That history can be at times infuriating and deeply upsetting, but it always feels topical and relevant to the conversations we’re having today (or should be having) about creating a society where neurodiversity can thrive.


BOOK OF AGES: THE LIFE AND OPINIONS OF JANE FRANKLIN by Jill Lepore

Benjamin Franklin’s youngest sister, Jane, was his faithful correspondent for years and inherited her own set of intellectual gifts, but was denied access to education and opportunities to exercise her talents. A bittersweet but compelling history by the author of two other nonfiction books I enjoyed in 2017: The Secret History of Wonder Woman and Joe Gould’s Teeth.


THE PEABODY SISTERS: THREE SISTERS WHO IGNITED AMERICAN ROMANTICISM by Megan Marshall

Sophia, the youngest sister and a talented artist, married Nathaniel Hawthorne. The middle sister, Mary, married the American educator Horace Mann, and was a writer and educator in her own right. And the eldest sister Elizabeth--well, she was too busy running a bookstore and teaching with Bronson Alcott and getting her brother-in-law Hawthorne a job and hanging out with Emerson and Thoreau and creating kindergartens throughout the land and basically BEING AWESOME ALL THE TIME to get married. Marshall mysteriously ends her history halfway through the sisters’ lives, but it’s still a wonderful introduction to these amazing women, and once you’re finished you can read her biography of another talented and unfairly forgotten woman: Margaret Fuller: A New American Life.


A HOUSE FULL OF DAUGHTERS: A MEMOIR OF SEVEN GENERATIONS by Juliet Nicolson

Nicolson traces the fascinating and scandalous history of her female ancestors, including her grandmother, Vita Sackville-West. An entertaining truth-is-stranger-than-fiction account of flamenco dancers, vicious inheritance battles, and shocking (for their time) lesbian relationships.


HARRIET TUBMAN: THE ROAD TO FREEDOM by Catherine Clinton

I spent part of 2017 catching up on American history that I’d missed (and that my education had neglected). Clinton’s biography is a wonderful introduction to Tubman, a real life superhero. Just put Harriet on all the money already.


MARCH by John Lewis, Andrew Aydin, and Nate Powell

This three-volume graphic novel series tells the story of another American hero, John Lewis. It’s a must-read history of the civil rights movement, at a time when we desperately need to remember and learn from the accomplishments of earlier generations.


BETWEEN THE WORLD AND ME by Ta-Nehisi Coates

I don’t know what more I can say about this deservedly much-praised memoir of being a black man in America. Toni Morrison calls it “required reading.” Listen to Toni.


STAMPED FROM THE BEGINNING: THE DEFINITIVE HISTORY OF RACIST IDEAS IN AMERICA by Ibram X. Kendi

I think it’s okay to be a bit dubious when a book describes itself as “definitive”, but this history easily earns its subtitle, and was perhaps the most important book I read in 2017. I cannot recommend it highly enough.



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13 Fun Homeschool Extras that Will Give Your Winter Homeschool a Boost

These fun extras (all less than $30!) will add a little oomph to your everyday homeschool routine and help ease you over the midwinter slump — without busting your budget.

13 Fun Homeschool Extras that Will Give Your Winter Homeschool a Boost

Having a little trouble getting your post-holiday groove back? These fun extras (all less than $30!) will add a little oomph to your everyday homeschool routine and help ease you over the midwinter slump — without busting your budget.

 

MEDIUM CRACK-OPEN GEODES ($25)

Smash through the mid-winter blues literally with a box of crack- open geodes—they’ll break open to reveal cool crystalline structures formed by mineral deposit build-up in sedimentary or igneous rocks. (You’ll want to break out safety glasses for your smash session.)


DRAWING WITH CHILDREN ($15)

You (yes, really, you) can add art to your curriculum even if you swear you don’t have an artistic bone in your body, thanks to the deliberate, detailed instructions in Mona Brookes’ easy-to-use art guide.


MUDPIES TO MAGNETS ($11)

With more than 200 activities to choose from, the fact that some of these hands-on experiments were designed for classrooms or science centers shouldn’t get you down—just choose ones that work for your homeschool, and you can do a new science experiment every day this winter.


GALILEO AND THE STARGAZERS CD ($19)

If your kids haven’t discovered the magic of Jim Weiss’s storytelling, this science- and history-rich tale is a great place to start. Bonus: It feels like playtime but totally counts as science.


MOZZARELLA & RICOTTA CHEESEMAKING KIT ($23)

Science class doesn’t get more delicious than this. In this handy kit, you’ll find all the supplies you need to make eight one- pound batches of homemade mozzarella or ricotta cheese. (For best results, read directions online in addition to the ones included with the kit—if you’re a cheesemaking newbie, more details are helpful.)


SILLY PUTTY SIX-PACK ($9)

While kids are stretching and molding this pliable putty, they’re also building hand strength and getting some of the fidgets out. 

 


HARRY POTTER COLORING BOOK ($14)

Sometimes, everybody just needs to calm down and chill out for a few minutes. That’s when you break out this devilishly detailed coloring book and the colored pencils.

 


KEEPING A NATURE JOURNAL ($13)

Winter may seem like a counterintuitive time to start a nature journal, but trust us: There’s plenty of window-side journaling to be done this time of year, and the more limited options will give you plenty of time to hone your skills and get into the journaling habit before the excitement of spring nature walks. Try a different area of focus every week.


TANGOES ($10)

Put your tangram skills to the test with these classic Chinese puzzles. Use the seven included pieces to recreate the images shown on each puzzle card—some are surprisingly tricky. This is a great warm-up-and-get-focused activity or a handy transition between subjects on tough days.


ANT FARM ($29)

Go ahead and order your ants from a supply company that ships them in a heated package— consider it the price of this excellent cold weather entertainment. You can hit the library to start a full-on ants unit study, or just watch your adopted insects tunnel their way through the weird blue gel.


I’M JUST HERE FOR THE FOOD ($22)

Any cookbook can work as the basis for a kitchen science curriculum, but you’re going to be hard-pressed to find a better option that Alton Brown’s nerdy, detailed I’m Just Here for the Food, which explores the science behind cooking decisions (like how to sear a piece of meat) thoroughly and thoughtfully. 


DJECO COLORED SAND ART ($17)

These art kits are perfect for meditative, focused work — we recommend the sand kit because the birds of paradise are so pretty, but any Djeco art kit makes a nice mid-winter pick-me-up for your homeschool.


MOLYMOD ORGANIC CHEMISTRY MOLECULAR MODEL ($21)

Get hands-on building molecules with this molecular model set—it’s designed for students taking organic chemistry, but even elementary age kids with a passion for science will appreciate being able to see how atoms fit together. It may take a few sessions to get the hang of connecting the atom pieces to each other, so be on hand to help minimize frustration.

 

 

This was originally published in the winter 2016 issue of HSL. Prices and availability were updated in January 2018 but may have changed since then.


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Readaloud of the Week: Confessions of an Imaginary Friend: A Memoir by Jacques Papier

An imaginary friend discovers that he's imaginary and sets off on a whimsical quest to find himself in this odd but lovely book.

CONFESSIONS OF AN IMAGINARY FRIEND by Michelle Cuevas

Jacques has just discovered that he’s imaginary — which certainly explains why everyone always ignores him and talks to his “sister” Fleur instead but doesn’t really tell him much about where he fits into the world. When Fleur’s worried parents take her to a psychiatrist to talk about her attachment to her imaginary friend, Jacques meets a whole group of oddball Invisibles in the waiting room, including Stinky Sock, who invites Jacques to the next meeting of Imaginaries Anonymous. As Jacques is reassigned to child after child, reforming his identity to fit their imaginary friend needs, he ponders the nature of reality and existence.

So clearly this is a niche book that gets a little heavy-handed with the whimsy sometimes, but it’s a sweet, odd story that makes a great family readaloud and a springboard to conversations about friendship, belonging, and (why not?) the meaning of life. It’s particularly easy to identify with Jacques’s feelings of invisibility early on: No one ever picks him for kickball, bus drivers close the doors in his face, people never talk to him directly. Figuring out that he’s an imaginary friend — and therefore literally invisible to people who aren’t his imagine-ers — may throw Jacques into an existential crisis, but it’s also kind of a relief. You might think of this as Toy Story for imaginary friends — just as that popular Pixar flick introduced the idea that toys have their own inner lives and experiences that their children know nothing about, this book suggests we only know the tiniest bit about our imaginary friends.

There are plenty of funny parts clearly written for parent readers — when Jacques is on the phone with the hilariously bureaucratic imaginary friend placement agency, his phone tree options include “Press 1 if you have been imagined as a trademark character and are worried about legal action” and “Press 2 if you have been imagined as food and are about to be eaten.” If you have kids who just can’t handle lots of whimsy, this whimsy-rich book is not going to be a good pick, but for kids who love a gentle fantasy with a philosophical twist and who can handle a tender, bittersweet ending, this is a delightful winter readaloud.

Quotable: “To tell the truth, I was beginning to think you would be in awe of anyone if you saw the parts of them that no one else gets to see. If you could watch them making up little songs, and doing funny faces in the mirror; if you saw them high-fiving a leaf on a tree, or stopping to watch a green inchworm hanging midair from an invisible thread, or just being really different and lonely and crying sometimes at night. Seeing them, the real them, you couldn't help but think that anyone and everyone is amazing.” 


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Stuff We Like :: 1.5.18

Life before the Internet, the importance of real journalism, transitioning back to homeschool after a break, some recent readalouds, and more stuff we like.

One of my New Year’s resolutions is to get more comfortable with myself, and so you might see a little more of my life peeking through here in these weekly roundups. For instance, I’m going to confess that I haven’t done a load of laundry since Hanukkah, and when I stumbled past the hamper this morning, I caused a clothing avalanche that I didn’t even pick up. This is what doing it all looks like in my house, y’all.

 

around the web

I love blogs. I really do. And I’ve learned a ton from homeschooler bloggers who’ve been willing to put their lives out there. Heck, we post on the HSL blog multiple times a week. But I worry when blogs take the place of real reporting — we need both! Real people’s stories and experiences AND serious journalism. I think that’s why this Wired piece about why journalism is a great place for tech to invest really hit home for me.

Love this! How “Get Out” inspired a college class on racism. (Suzanne and I are still trying to figure out how to teach an ethics class based on The Good Place.)

What was life like before the Internet? “‘Should I test out these pens on this turquoise pad?’ you’d ask yourself, staring at some pens by the phone.”

Warning: This piece by Clint Smith about visiting the National Museum of African History and Culture with his grandfather and realizing how not-at-all-long-ago legislated racism actually was might make you tear up a little.

 

at home/school/life

in the magazine: The winter issue’s out next week!

on the blog: Join our 2018 Reading Challenge!

one year ago: Perk up your homeschool space for a happiness boost

two years ago: Transitioning back to homeschooling after a break (I should probably go read this!)

three years ago: Education for a different version of success

four years ago: What do we mean when we say we’re a secular magazine?

 

reading list

Holiday reading is the best reading! We read Aru Shah and the End of Time together — it’s basically Percy Jackson with Indian mythology (and the heroine is a girl), but that’s not really a surprise since this is one of the first books in Rick Riordan’s new imprint. Maybe critically it would have been nice if it had diverged a little from the Percy Jackson narrative line, but hey, it’s the hero’s journey, right? That’s the story. And it was fun and full of Indian mythology, and I giggled every time someone got huffy about the Pandava brothers being the Pandava sisters in this incarnation, so I’ve got no complaints. It's out in March, so I'll plan to review it properly closer to the release date.

We also enjoyed Winterhouse, another middle grades book with a familiar feeling — it will remind you a bit of books like The Mysterious Benedict Society. Orphan Elizabeth Somers is summoned to Christmas at the resort Winterhouse, which she dreads until she arrives and discovers the friendly staff, delicious food, and (best of all) massive library. Elizabeth makes her first friend — Freddy, who loves word games as much as she does — and discovers a hidden book in the library that points to a dark Winterhouse mystery. We liked it but didn’t love it.

Also read: A Darker Shade of Magic, which I have had forever on my Kindle and which I am now kicking myself for not reading sooner because it’s surprisingly compelling. Kell is a kind of magician who has the power to move between worlds: Red London (his world, where magic is real), Gray London (our world, where George III is king of England), and White London (a creepy place ruled by creepy people). There also used to be Black London, which now exists as a cautionary tale about the trouble that can happen when people introduce magic into worlds that don’t have it. I don’t always love fantasy, but this book had likable characters, great world-building, lots of action, and enough surprises to keep me reading.

 

at home

I have been wrapping up the winter issue and trying to get ahead on a couple of other projects, plus planning out the spring semester classes I’m teaching, so I am not sure this has been the totally chill, relaxing break I would have liked it to be. It has been lovely being home all day again, though, and I am not going to ever complain about getting to wear pajamas for 24 hours straight, so I am going to say it’s been a great holiday. I hope yours has, too!


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Mission Possible: Totally Doable New Year’s Resolutions for Your Homeschool

Small changes can make the biggest difference in your homeschool life. Here’s how to make this year your most satisfying yet.

The ancient Babylonians — who started the whole New Year’s resolutions trend with annual self-improvement promises to their gods — had the right idea: Their resolutions were simple, concrete acts that they could accomplish easily — returning borrowed farm equipment or planting a tree. Today, New Year’s resolutions seem silly if they are not big, sweeping goals: be happier, make more money, keep a cleaner house. The nebulous nature of these pursuits (what does one do to be happier?) make them almost doomed to fail, but if we can hone in on specific, small, actionable pieces of these goals — making time for ourselves each day, say, or stopping the out-the-door chaos on co-op mornings — we can actually see our New Year’s resolutions, well, resolve themselves. We can make it a better year—realistically and meaningfully. So read on for steps you can take to tackle some of the more common homeschool life road bumps, and resolve to make 2016 a better year for your family, one step at a time.

 

RESOLUTION: Stop being late for everything.

If your clan is chronically late, changing into people who show up on time can be a big task—but it’s doable if you—and your kids—are willing to commit to making a series of small changes every day, says Pauline Wallin, clinical psychologist and author of Taming Your Inner Brat: A Guide for Transforming Self-Defeating Behavior.

Start small. Set one manageable goal per day: I will not hit the snooze button this morning. I will put the library books by the door tonight instead of trying to find them in the morning. If you can’t commit to these small inconveniences, being on time may not be as important to you as you think it is.

Retrain your sense of time. Track your activities for a week — jot down daily tasks, how long you think each will take, and how long each actually takes, from morning readaloud to the breakfast dishes. Often, people are late because they have a fixed but incorrect idea of how long an activity takes.

Resist the urge to do one more thing. The need to feel productive is why you suddenly start opening mail or wiping counters when you should be walking out the door. Train yourself to stop what you’re doing — even if you’re in mid-wipe — at your designated go-time and walk right out the door.

Aim to be early. Plan to be exactly on time, and any unexpected event—your 6-year-old’s missing shoes or forgetting to charge your phone—will make you late. Instead, plan to be 15 minutes early, and bring along an activity you enjoy to fill those 15 minutes. (Family Uno game, anyone?)

What if it’s your kids who are always late? You can’t force someone to be on time— and tricks, like pretending events start earlier than they do, only work once or twice before kids figure you out. If being on time is important for an activity, talk to your kids about whether they’re willing to make it a priority. If not, this may not be the right year for that activity.

 

RESOLUTION: Clean up your homeschool clutter.

Let’s face facts: for a lot of us, some clutter is part of homeschool life. Even if you’re fairly vigilant about pruning papers and organizing supplies, stuff can get out of hand — and if you don’t stay on top of things, you can watch your dining room table disappear underneath your piles. You may never be a super-organized homeschooler, but you can make your space feel less chaotic with these tips and tricks. 

Aim higher. Add shelves to make your bookcases stretch all the way to the ceiling, and you’ll be amazed by how much extra space you get. Store very specific (5th grade math manipulatives or extra printer cartridges) or seldom-used items on the higher shelves.

Color code. Assign each kid a color, and use that color consistently: Buy notebooks, folders, and pencils, cover schoolbooks, and flag important pages in your own books or binders with your chosen color, and you’ll instantly know whose stuff is where. If your kids have lots of writing assignments, you may want to edit their papers using a pen in their designated color, too.

Back up. Invest in an off-site Internet service or external hard drive to keep your computer data safe, and you can scan and toss (or just plain toss) papers when they start to pile up.

Get into the habit. The key to staying organized is to spend about 10 minutes at the end of your school day tidying up your learning spaces and prepping for the next day. There’s no dramatic before- and-after with this habit, but the long-term difference is huge.

 

RESOLUTION: Get comfortable with imperfection.

Perfectionism gets a bad rap, but it doesn’t have to be a bad thing: Heathy perfectionists know how to set ambitious-but-attainable goals and work to achieve them, which gives you a strong sense of purpose and accomplishment and a healthy perspective on the times when things don’t go right. (“This will make a great story someday!”) The problem is that it’s easy to veer into unhealthy perfectionism, where you’re mentally setting expectations that are just plain impossible and ensuring you hang on to that sinking feeling of constant failure. The key is to channel the good parts of your commitment to excellence without dragging in all the negative baggage — and a big piece of that is getting comfortable with the parts of life that may not live up to your high standards. “To be enlightened is to be without anxiety over imperfection,” Buddhists say, so think of these imperfection-accepting strategies as steps along the path to enlightenment.

Be your own measuring stick. Forget your friends, forget the blogs, forget Pinterest, and measure yourself against only your own abilities, says University of British Columbia, Vancouver clinical psychologist Jennifer Campbell. No one can be good at everything.

Know when okay is okay. Sometimes you want to be the best, but sometimes (Tuesday night dinner? Friday morning math?) just getting the job done counts as success.

Embrace the minimum. It is much better to have a terrific spontaneous 20 minutes of history than to plan out an entire year with a schedule so intense that you’re overwhelmed just reading your lesson plan. Find a balance that works for you, and don’t assume that more always means better.

Acknowledge the failures. Sometimes things go wrong, and it’s okay to say “this reading curriculum just isn’t working,” and let it go. Making failures into “I’m-not-trying-hard-enough” is a sure way to get stuck in a bad situation.

Be present. Live where you are with things as they are rather than getting hung up on the future or the past.

 

RESOLUTION: Make time for yourself.

We get it—oh, boy, do we ever get it: You’re busy. Like, insanely busy. But if you don’t make yourself a priority, you’re going to get burned out and grumpy. There’s a fine line between generosity — an integral part of being the kind of giving, doing parent we all want to be — and martyrdom, and we cross it when we get hung up on doing everything, including the things that someone else can do just as well — or sometimes better — than we can. It’s tempting to see this perpetual doing-too-much as an expression of love, but always putting yourself last will ultimately make you feel stressed out and resentful. And worse, over time it actually makes our kids appreciate all the things we do less and less because real respect can only come when someone recognizes that another person has hopes, dreams, and goals, too. Make this the year you channel some of your generous spirit into an area that needs it: you.

Consider yourself important. You are going to feel guilty about making me-time as long as you have the idea that your me-time is somehow less important than making-dinner, teaching-science, or cleaning-the-bathroom time. Say no to things that don’t feed your soul. Making yourself a priority means crossing some things off your to-do list. What can you let go of?

Write me-time on your calendar. Treat it just like any other part of your schedule, and write in 15 minutes a day of me-time — in pen.

 

RESOLUTION: Stay motivated when homeschooling gets hard.

Starting the school year, we have all these great plans and ideas for making this year the Best One Ever. By February, though, many of us hit a slump, where homeschooling feels like a slog and we’re taxing our inner resources just to do our version of the minimum. Sometimes, this is a sign that you need a mid-winter break. But if a break doesn’t boost your motivation, there are other ways to get it back.

If-then your routine. When you’re planning your week, anticipate bumps so that you have a plan in place to handle them: If we don’t get to math in the morning, we’ll do a lesson after dinner. If it’s raining, we’ll watch a documentary for nature study.

Be reasonable. If your homeschool plans are too ambitious, you can lose steam and give up. Set smaller goals, like doing an hour of school every weekday or doing one family project a week, and increase if you want to as you build stamina.

Keep a daily record. Some people opt to be accountable on public platforms, but even jotting down a paragraph in your homeschool journal every night can be commitment enough to keep you motivated. Feeling responsible to someone, even if it’s just yourself, can really help you stick with something when you aren’t feeling motivated.

Find a support network. One of the best tools in your motivation toolbox is a network of people who understand your challenges and will empathize or cheer you on as the situation requires. Every homeschool parent really needs at least one fellow homeschooler in her social circle — if you don’t have a real-life community, find an online group where you feel comfortable. (Just don’t forget to return the support when your friend is the one needing a motivation boost.)

Put your own learning on the lesson plan. One of the best ways to stay motivated in your homeschool life is to enjoy the process, so why limit all the learning fun to the kids? Sign up for a local college or online class that sparks your interest, and share your enthusiasm with your kids.

Remind yourself why this all matters. You’re more likely to stay motivated when a goal has true personal meaning for you, and when you hit a slump, remembering that meaning can pull you through. Multiplication drills may not inspire your heart, but raising kids who don’t stress over every math test they encounter might. Keep an eye on the big picture.

 

This article is excerpted from the winter 2016 issue of HSL.


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